maybe "love is love" is a capable motto as long as a majority of the population meaningfully understands what love is. it probably becomes less capable
in proportion to how distorted the general cultural perception of love becomes. assuming it's possible for anyone to meaningfully understand what love
is. maybe not, in which case the motto is sort of meaningless aside from implying some other phrases. the motto could be these other phrases
instead. "love, whatever it happens to be in each case where it may be existing, is harmless," or, "please don't be an utter sociopath"